'Special Deliveries'
Picnic
Celebrates Reproductive Clinic's Success Stories
By Cindy Wojdyla Cain
Herald News Staff Writer
August 1999
JOLIET -- The babies and toddlers gathered at a picnic
on Sunday looked like any other kids.
They drooled, they cried, they gurgled.
Only their parents and the staff from Reproductive
Health Specialists, Ltd. knew the children received a little extra help
coming into this world.
All of the babies were born with a nudge from science,
provided by the Joliet-based clinic, which opened two years ago.
About 30 babies, including two sets of triplets and a set of twins, were
on hand Sunday along with their proud parents and siblings.
The picnic, held adjacent to the clinic office at 310 N.
Hammes Ave., allowed clinic staffers to see the end results of their
work. Typically, couples who become pregnant only receive care at
the clinic for the first trimester of pregnancy then return to their
obstetricians.
"This is a time for us to participate in a little
bit of the joy," said Linda Mroczkowski, the clinic's office
manager.
More than 60 babies have been conceived through the
clinic's services, but only 40-45 have been born. The rest are
"in the works" as Mroczkowski put it.
Reducing Multiple Births
Dr. Marek Piekos, a reproductive endocrinologist,
located the clinic in Joliet because there was no other such facility in
the region. Since opening in Joliet, the clinic has opened
satellite offices in Melrose Park and Chicago.
One of the
newest services provided by the clinic is the use of blastocyst
cultures, which allow more mature embryos to be implanted in
women. Because the blastocyst has a better chance of attaching,
fewer embryos are implanted leading to fewer multiple births.
Piekos tries to avoid high-risk multiple births beyond twins.
Kathy
Samano of Joliet had triplets, two boys and a girl, in February.
But, she has no complaints. Samano and her husband, Guillermo, had
one son, Guillermo, Jr., 7. But the couple wanted more children.
One
of Samano's fallopian tubes was damaged by a tubal pregnancy a few years
ago and her other tube was not ovulating. She sought help from the
clinic.
"They implanted six eggs and we got three
babies," she said. "We discussed doing a reduction (of
embryos) but we prayed from the very beginning and if that (triplets) is
what God wanted that's what was going to happen."
Jamin,
Alejandro and Miguel Angel were born Feb. 12.
"It's
been difficult, but I'd do it all over again," said Samano.
"My house is so much more lively with them."
Clinic
Workers Share In Joy
The picnic was a way for Samano
and other patients to show off their special deliveries and show their
appreciation for clinic employees.
"These people
have just been fantastic," said Jeanette Stevenson of Shorewood,
who attended the picnic with her husband, Dan, and daughter, Megan, 7
months. "They're so caring and involved."
Stevenson
suffered one miscarriage before conceiving Megan.
"It
was as hard on them (clinic staffers) as it was on us," she said.
"Clinic
employees get just as emotionally involved in the failures as the
successes," Mroczkowski said.
"I've seen staff
members sit there and cry because they get to know these people so
well," she said. "The biggest heartbreaker is when
couples conceive and then they lose the baby."
Even
science isn't 100 percent effective in correcting all infertility.
"I
wish it were," Mroczkowski said. "But sometimes there's
just nothing you can do."
But Sunday was a day for
celebrating the successes. Watching parents tote diaper bags and
push strollers had special meaning.
"For some of
these people it's been a long haul with many years of trying," said
Judie Mirous, clinical director and in vitro coordinator.
Sometimes
the clinic is so successful at helping clients, the effects linger even
after a baby is born. Anita Gomez of River Forest became pregnant
with twins, Alicia and Monica, who were born Sept. 19, 1997. A
short while later, Gomez became pregnant again, with no help from the
clinic.
"I was totally in shock," said Gomez
who attended the picnic with her twin daughters and surprise son Luis,
who was born in January.
"It's been like Babies 'R
Us at my house,"
Cara Merriman sought help from the
clinic after giving birth to a daughter, Nikki, five years ago, then
suffering one miscarriage and a tubal pregnancy. When Cara became
pregnant, her daughter worried the new baby wouldn't make it.
"She
said, 'Mom, do you think God will let us keep this baby?'"
With
a little help from the clinic, a healthy Joshua was born 16 months ago
and he happily celebrated at the picnic by chewing on a sippy cup while
his mother held him in her arms.